Helping you add pleasure into your life after a betrayal.

Join me for a 6-hour workshop to help you get off the post-fidelity emotional rollercoaster, and instead heal yourself & reconnect with your partner. 

If you’re anything like most of my clients:

You want to get past the feelings of betrayal but you feel like you don’t know how to trust again

You’ve tried to put the pieces back together but your relationship still lacks the passion and desire it once had

Your self-esteem has been damaged and you don’t know how to heal post-heartbreak

You desire to express your frustrations with your partner but feel like you are walking on eggshells when you bring up the subject of infidelity

Imagine if things were different and you could:

Heal from the past and co-create a future that you and your partner both desire

Rediscover your sexual self and reignite the pleasure in your relationship

Have open communication that allows you to feel connected and safe with your partner

Reconnect with your partner and regain confidence in your intimate relationship

Trust me, I understand the emotional roller coaster you may be on. I was in your shoes before. You have the desire to stay but not the tools to help you heal & rebuild your relationship.

I want to give you what I never had - 
a safe nonjudgmental space and the resources to not only save your relationship, but also create a healthy & sustainable couple's sexual style.

Hi, I'm Renelle!

AASECT CERTIFIED SEX THERAPIST & 

INFIDELITY RECOVERY STRATEGIST 

I have helped over 100 couples in my 12 years as a Couples Therapist and Coach. I specialize in Sexual concerns and affair aftercare. I created this experience to assist the couple who still may be plagued by the trauma of the betrayal but are willing to do the work to move past the trauma even stronger.

I’m here to help you reclaim your sexual purpose, get the pleasure you deserve and learn how to create the type of relationship that you desire.

AS SEEN ON:

If your relationship could use some CPR,

then let me introduce you to…

Helping you add pleasure into your life after a betrayal.

Join me for a 6-hour workshop to help you get off the post-fidelity emotional rollercoaster, and instead heal yourself & reconnect with your partner. 

HERE'S WHAT'S INCLUDED...

  • A 6-hour intimate workshop where you’ll receive the tools & exercises to foster connection, satisfaction and pleasure
  • Strategies on how to effectively communicate with your partner (in a safe, non-judgmental space) and a roadmap for recovery
  • 200 page intimacy planner full of prompts, healing tips and skill building 
  • A workbook with over 5 pleasure-enhancing exercises
  • An opportunity to deeply reflect on both partner’s goals, needs desires
  • 2x30 minute after-care calls for support and relapse prevention

Our Focus

The 6 phases to get you back in alignment

01.

RECOMMIT

Creating a new contract for the relationship with discussion of relationship agreements. a sustainable mission, and goals for the relationship.

REFLECT

Looking back to learn from past experiences ie: sexual style, communication and conflict. Challenging mindset blocks that are keeping you in your head and not in you body.

02.

03.

RELEASE

Release what no longer serves the relationship: coping mechanisms, negative patterns or thoughts and comparison

RECONNECT

No demanding sexual touch, different forms of connection and intimacy

04.

05.

REIGNITE

Desire, Sexual style, eroticism and pleasure in and out the bedroom.

RELAPSE PREVENTION

Create a plan to prevent relapse, affair proof and sustainable pleasure

06.

LET ME HELP YOU SAVE YOUR 

RELATIONSHIP AFTER INFIDELITY…

I know you may feel plagued by your trauma, but if you’re willing to do the work, you can make it to the other side stronger. 

Together, let’s create your roadmap to re-building trust, fostering a new connection, and ultimately creating a space for healing.  

THE TRANSFORMATION THAT AWAITS YOU...

01

Finally feeling confident that you have the tools to implement in your relationship to make pleasure sustainable in and out of the bedroom.

No more avoidant behavior or back to the attack counterattack mode.

02

03

Becoming sexual allies with the skills for maintaining a satisfying, secure and sexual relationship.

04

Open communication that includes sharing your wants needs and desires in a healthy and productive way.

A new foundation built on trust & mutual respect

05

06

Having acceptance and positive realistic expectations of your partner, the relationship, and sexuality.

This is for you if...

  • Both partners have a desire to recommit to this area of their relationship in a healthy way
  • You have been active in affair recovery and need more tools in this area
  • You are ready to explore (with no blame approach) ways to work together in the area of sex, intimacy and connection

This is not for you if...

  • You are still active in the affair
  • Either partner is unsure if they still want to be together and is not ready to forgive and connect
  • You have had a sexless marriage before the affair and don’t want to change

Testimonials

WE LOVED THE PRACTICAL TIPS & RESOURCES

"I would highly recommend couples counselling with Renelle. Her wisdom on the topic is deep and wide. Not only did she help us with pre-marital counselling, but also devoted several sessions to things and topics we needed in our specific relationship! We LOVED how down-to-earth she was. She gives it to you straight and is a trusted confidant with practical tips and resources to help better your relationship. We will definitely be coming back for more check-in sessions!"

- V.L DOONEY , GEORGIA

I LOOK AT INTIMACY DIFFERENTLY NOW

"Working with Renelle was the thing I needed but didn't know how badly. I am so thankful to have learned more about my body and to took at intimacy so differently now. There are no words that can experess how grateful I am in her help to owning this piece of my story."

- K.KENSLEY NEBRASKA

I FEEL EMPOWERED AFTER WORKING WITH RENELLE

"I had been seeking to understand how to overcome past issues that I had experienced in previous relationships and how those issues, especially around intimacy, had kept me fearful of dating/romantic relationships. Renelle's coaching created a safe space by listening to understand and being able to provide detailed, practical guidance that would allow me to begin confronting areas of fear around dating. The sessions with Renelle have left me empowered and already applying what I have learned."

- R.LEWIS WISCONSIN

Note: Due to the nature of some services some couples opted out of using their full names

Helping you add pleasure into your life after a betrayal.

Join me for a 6-hour workshop to help you get off the post-fidelity emotional rollercoaster, and instead heal yourself & reconnect with your partner. 

Sign up today with these two options

ONE PAYMENT

$2,997

ONE PAYMENT

$1,499

You deserve
PLEASURE.



Frequently asked questions

HOW DO I KNOW IF THIS 6 HOUR WORKSHOP IS FOR US?


This workshop is for you if you have been working hard on reconnecting after betrayal but feel you don't want to go back to the way it was but explore and co create something new. 

WHAT HAPPENS IF I CAN'T DO THE 6 HOURS?

The 6hour workshop is broken into 2 segments of 3 hours in the morning and 3 hours in the afternoon. We will take an hour for lunch and have some breaks in between. I created this workshop to make it easy to schedule from work and to help with childcare arrangements. This is a perfect way to put pleasure on the agenda and prioritize your relationship. If you are unable to schedule off a whole day I have a 6 week 60 min weekly program which we will cover the same material.

WILL 6 HOURS HELP ARE RELATIONSHIP?

No but you will get the tools, resources and Actionable steps to jump start this area in your relationship. This workshop was designed to get you unstuck. I have more ways to work with me like monthly retainers, weekly programs and resources to assist you with sustainable pleasure. We will also discuss relapse prevention and write up a plan to assist you with a strategy to assist and support you moving forward.

WHAT HAPPENS IF IT DOESN'T HELP?

This is why I only work with committed couples who are ready to do the work. I provide everything you need. Action creates changes and that happens outside of your time with me. The good news is you are working with a trained specialist in couples therapy, sex and Infidelity who have supported many couples and can also guide you if you are open and ready.

WHAT HAPPENS IF I CAN'T INVEST AT THIS TIME?

No worries, I have smaller packages and resources to still assist you on this journey. You can follow me on ig @affair aftercare or Facebook to get ideas in this area. Check my website at listen to the podcast I have been featured on or read a blog post. My mission is to help you heal, so you can feel again!

Every journey needs a guide. Let me assist you on your adventure through the love, sex and chaos in your relationship with self or your partner.

CONTACT

  • 800 784 3680
  • 1 602 854 1284
  • contactus@renelleenelson.com